Saturday, August 3, 2013

GAY TEACHER FIRED FROM CATHOLIC SCHOOL

GAY TEACHER FIRED FROM CATHOLIC SCHOOL

Students, alum and supporters are planning a march in support of
Bencomo at St. Lucy's on Aug. 8.

Over 1,500 people have RSVP'd for the march on Facebook.

A Southern California man who taught at a Catholic high school for 17 years
was fired days after he married his partner.

Students say Ken Bencomo, 45, was one of the most beloved teachers at
St. Lucy's Priory High School, an all-girl school in Glendora, Calif.

Bencomo and his partner Christopher Persky, 32, were one of the first couples
to line up on July 1 at the San Bernardino County Assessor-Recorder's Office to
get married after the U.S. Supreme Court ruled a ban on same-sex marriage as unconstitutional.

That same day, the Inland Valley Daily Bulletin ran a front-page photo and online
video of the newlyweds celebrating their marriage.

Last week, St. Lucy's students started talking on social media about the absence
of Bencomo from their fall schedules. When they suspected the teacher had
been fired, former student Brittany Littleton, 23, started a petition on Change.org to get Bencomo re-hired. As of 11 a.m. PST on Thursday, the
petition had over 8,500 signatures.

The petition describes Bencomo and his involvement in the school:
He is a beloved mentor, confidant, and educator. His passion for teaching,
as well as his witty personality, have made him a favorite teacher among
many students. He is extremely active at St. Lucy's; he teaches multiple
subjects along with taking on various leadership positions including Yearbook moderator, dance coach, and head of the English Department.
On July 12, Bencomo was notified in person by Assistant Principal Sister Helen
Dziuk that he was being terminated because his marriage violates the church's
teachings, Bencomo's lawyer, Patrick McGarrigle, told HuffPost.

"The happiest day of his life has turned into a nightmare," McGarrigle said.
"He's sick about it because he has such an affinity for the school. His lifelong
efforts have been disrupted. The humiliation hurts him very much."

Bencomo would like to resolve the matter with the school without any litigation,
McGarrigle said. Before his marriage, Bencomo had signed an employment renewal contract with St. Lucy's in May.

Jessica Navarro, a 2011 alum of St. Lucy's, expressed her gratitude to "Mr.B" on

"Mr. B was the one who gave me the opportunity to dance and choreograph
in the style that I love most," Navarro wrote. "He put faith into me and gave
me the responsibility of choreographing pieces for the hip hop team and for
my dance class and just by having someone so friendly and welcoming as him
gave me more faith in myself as a dancer."

"I hope the school delivers an apology to Bencomo and [its] students," she
continued. Instead of going back to St. Lucy's, "Bencomo deserves to go to
an institution that didn't treat him poorly based on his love life."

Students say that it was well-known on campus for years that Bencomo was
in a committed relationship. Several staff members had met his partner, who
he has been with for 10 years, Bencomo's lawyer said.

"It was known by 99 percent of the school that he was gay but it was never
an issue in the past," Littleton said to HuffPost. "I think it's very hypocritical
to be OK with someone and their relationship until they are open about it."

"In fact, in a social justice religion class, we were taught to be inclusive and
fight for peoples' rights," she recalled to HuffPost.

Students, alum and supporters are planning a march in support of
Bencomo at St. Lucy's on Aug. 8. Over 1,500 people have RSVP'd for

St. Lucy's declined to comment to The Huffington Post but has released the
following public statement.

"We respect and protect privacy interests and, to be respectful of those involved,
the school does not comment on confidential matters," the school stated. "St.
Lucy’s wishes to reassure all in our community that upholding its mission to
educate students in the tradition of the Catholic faith is of paramount importance."

may be disciplined, including suspended or terminated, for "behavior counter to
the moral teachings and standards of the church."
The Catholic Diocese of San Bernardino could not be reached for comment.

"Do they fire teachers who get divorced? Or who treat their gay children with
dignity and respect instead of shaming them?" Evan Wolfson, founder and
president of Freedom to Marry, the campaign to win marriage nationwide, told
HuffPost in commenting on the case.

"How sad to see an employer practicing discrimination so at odds with the
teachings of the Golden Rule and the spirit of what the Pope himself went out
of his way to say just a few days ago," Wolfson said.

Pope Francis made headlines last week by saying, "Who am I to judge a gay
person of goodwill who seeks the Lord? You can't marginalize these people."

According to a recent Gallup poll, 60 percent of Catholics are in favor of "making
same-sex marriages legal in all 50 states."

However, the law does not protect LGBT employees of religious institutions.

"Unfortunately for the students at the countless religious schools in our country,
the legal thumb usually is on the discrimination side of the scales," Jennifer Pizer,
senior counsel and director of the Lambda Legal Law and Policy Project, told
HuffPost.

The U.S. Supreme Court recently ruled that religious schools, protected by the
First Amendment, have the right to hire and fire teachers based on whether or
not their actions are in line with religious doctrine.

Federal legislation prohibits employment discrimination based on race, religion,
sex, nation of origin, age and any disability -- it does not ban discrimination based
on gender identify or sexual orientation. Thus, in 33 states that currently don't
have state bans, people can be fired, denied a promotion or harassed, merely for
being LGBT.

According to a poll from the Center for American Progress, nine out of 10
Americans mistakenly think that LGBT individuals are already protected from
workplace discrimination under federal law.

Nineteen years after its introduction into the political arena, the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) passed a Senate committee last month. ENDA
would ban workplace discrimination based on gender identity and sexual
orientation, but religious organizations are exempted.

LGBT activists think that religious exemption is too broad and should be
narrowed to have the same parameters as Title VII, which prohibits
discrimination based on race, sex, national origin and religion.

While litigation is a last resort, McGarrigle said that he believes his client
has a case because "the law is changing here. No one expected the Supreme
Court to overturn DOMA."

While sexual orientation in the workplace is not federally protected, California's
Fair Employment and Housing Act prohibits discrimination in employment
because of sexual orientation. FEHA does have an exemption for religious
institutions, but McGarrigle thinks it does not apply because of the administration's knowledge of Bencomo's sexual orientation and partner for years, and his long-term employment and continued promotion at the school.

"This is a very unique circumstance," McGarrigle said. "Not like one that has ever
been litigated before."

Lucy's alum Abigail O'Brien, 19, wrote on Facebook about joining the effort to
support Bencomo:
I love St. Lucy's - I love SL for the faculty that knew when I was having a 'bad'
day, the tradition(s) of a beautiful 'Our Father' prayer, the students that walked
with me up and down those infamous stairs, and the community that is coming together on this page.
Mr.B should still be working there ... and that belief is what we are standing up
for.  Proud, humbled, and overwhelmed with love -
We are sisters, and we are that change.
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visualization and verbal intent to
Co-create a peaceful world now...

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4 comments:

Anonymous said...

catholic church is known to be full of pedofiles

such a double stand and what is up is down and what is down is up

God will decide in spite of our human opinions

Anonymous said...

What the heck ever happened to FREEDOM OF RELIGION? Hello you people (mostly immature teenagers with some immature adults!)out there! This is a religious school! I'll repeat that: THEY ARE A RELIGIOUS SCHOOL! They (and the rest of us) are allowed BY CONSTITUTIONAL LAW to follow our religious beliefs whether you like it or not. If you don't like it, go somewhere else, just like this teacher can do.

We have become a nation of demanding, self-serving disgusting know-it-alls who want to dictate even the words and actions of others. We tolerate pornography, the F word, sodomy, abortion and every other vile practice, yet they can't fire a teacher for violation of God's law (an ordinance or statute for those who want to split hairs)???? All in the name of "kindness" and "justice"? Remember, Satan appears as an angel of light!!!

Anonymous said...

Im not religious at all but it is a religious school, that is their right, if he wants let him go get a job at a public school where they teach everything but the classics, i.e...alternative lifestyles, minority history, green education etc. What im wondering is if they knew he was gay, why did they let him stay on as a teacher at all, they have to set examples and well, gay marriage is not a good example.

Anonymous said...

Frankly speaking, homosexual behavior is intrinsically sinful, disorientated and anti-social.

Let’s talk about why homosexuals, even chaste homosexually-oriented men and women, must be disqualified from teaching the youth. I will speak of male homosexual behavior, although the argument applies to both genders.

Same-sex attraction is rooted in self-loathing. The homosexual hates himself and is thus drawn to people of the same gender out of a sense of envy, which is twisted into a form of eroticism. The homosexual desires and/or seeks masturbatory physical congress with others NOT so that he may give himself as a gift to the other, because remember, he hates himself. The homosexual lusts after other men because he seeks to selfishly consume their attractive traits and thus transform himself into someone else. Homosexual “sex” can never be anything but totally self-absorbed and narcissistic. And so we see that even this ORIENTATION, even without any physical acting out including solitary self-abuse, because it is rooted in self-loathing and envy IS ITSELF MASSIVELY DISORDERED AND SINFUL. A man erotically pining after another man is a sin.

What about a man who “erotically loves” another man? There is no such thing. If Man A really loved Man B, he would be incapable of desiring sexual congress because same-sex physical congress is itself a massively irrational, hateful, violent, self-absorbed act.

The Catholic administration of St. Lucy’s Catholic School did the right thing in dismissing this sick individual, thus preventing him from corrupting the minds of the youth.